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Listing July - 2012
 
  Tuesday
Jul-31
 
 
 
  Sunday
Jul-22
The following reflection is by Jane Mellett called 'Follow Them'

The disciples return from their 'sending out' and tell all that they have done. They 'rejoin Jesus'. They have been so busy that Jesus invites them away to a deserted place for some time out. This is the first important point in this passage - even though we are sent out in many different ways we must always come back to the source, stay connected with the message, give time for reflection, prayer and those deserted places. Only when we do this can we serve the needs of others.

Still the crowds find them and Jesus takes pity on them because they were 'like sheep without a shepherd'. They have no leadership or perhaps have only experienced fruitless leadership. The crowd take a risk in following the disciples and Jesus, desperate for some new direction.

'The biggest mistake is to sometimes play things safe in this life and end up being moral failures.' ~ Dorothy Day
 
 
 
  Saturday
Jul-21
I am reading a book called 'The People's Prayers' at the moment. I like the following two prayers.

God's Promise
God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow or sun without rain. But God did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears and a light for the way. And for all who believe in God's Kingdom of love, God will answer their faith with peace from above.

The second prayer has no title but it goes as follows. May you always have an angel by your side, watching out for you in all the things you do, reminding you to keep believing in brighter days, finding ways for your wishes and dreams. May you have hope that is certain as the sun, giving you the strength of serenity as your guide. May you always have love, comfort, courage and may you always have someone by your side. May you have someone there to catch you if you fall, encouraging your dreams, inspiring your happiness, holding your hand and helping you through it all. And may you always have an angel by your side.
 
 
 
  Friday
Jul-20
'We can no more go back to the way we were, than we can put toothpaste back into a tube.' ~Brendan Hoban

There are many things we will try and get on well. But if we try and put toothpaste back into a tube again, we know it will be a task very much beyond us! This can reflect on other things in life too. When we make a mistake or do something wrong we can often be like the toothpaste. It can't go back in and we can't go back on what we have done wrong. The only way forward is to start again, learn from where we went wrong and do our best not to make the same mistake.

The image of the toothpaste and the tube can also refer to what is old and new. Sometimes we're stuck in the past, stuck to what we know, stuck in what is sometimes old, stale and lacking energy. We're slow to try something new or do something different. In many of our Gospel stories Jesus gently invites us from the old and stale. We are encouraged to embrace life and do things that bring us energy and inspiration. This will be different for everyone and can be quite different each day. As the month of July swiftly moves along, what gives you energy at this time of year? What do you like doing that helps you unwind? What in your life is stale and negative? Can you do anything today to let go of one thing that's old, stale or negative? Then in place of that one thing, what can you do to try something that is new, refreshing and energising?
 
 
 
  Thursday
Jul-19
The word of God is like a scented garden, delightful and beautiful. It touches our heart, comforts us in sorrow, soothes us in a moment of anger and fills us with eternal joy.' ~St.John Damascene

Every person has some favourite piece of scripture reading. It may be a line, a verse or a story we have remembered since school, we may have heard it in a church or it may be a piece we have picked for a wedding or a funeral. It meant something to you and importantly it was also the quiet voice of God speaking to you. We can dismiss the word of God as irrelevant, outdated and out of touch. That would be a pity. The world we live in desperately needs a guiding light and some direction. The word of God allows us to move from what's shallow and empty into something much more meaningful in our lives. Sometimes it's just a few words we need to hold on to. What is your favourite line or word? Why not hold it close to you today?
 
 
 
  Wednesday
Jul-18
The following is one of Liam Lawton's songs called 'There Is A Place' dedicated to our loved ones who have died but who will always live in our hearts.

There is a time to remember, a time to recall, the trials and the triumphs, the fears and the falls. There is a time to be grateful for moments so blessed, the jewels of our memory where love is our guest.

There is gold that is gleaming in a past we once knew, in our tears and our laughter, 'twas love brought us through, there's a road we have travelled where sunlight has kissed, that carries us onwards when loved ones are missed.

There is treasure in our fields, there is treasure in our skies, there is treasure in our dreaming from the soul to the eye, for wherever we gather in the light of God's grace and for all whom we remember there will ever be a place.

In the quiet of the evening, at the close of the day, we will rest from our journey; to the Lord we will pray. May we thank God for blessings and for the moments we have shared, as we look to tomorrow, close by us they'll stay.

There is treasure in our fields, there is treasure in our skies, there is treasure in our dreaming from the soul to the eye, for wherever we gather in the light of God's grace and for all whom we remember there will ever be a place.
 
 
 
  Tuesday
Jul-17
'Maybe we can only recognise the beauty surrounding us when we welcome the beauty that lies deep within us. The sadness is that we become so busy and bothered about the trials and difficulties that beset us, that we seldom give time to welcome this gift' ~Far East Magazine

One of the great spiritual writers St Paul wrote a lovely letter to the Philippians and asked them to think about things around them that were true, lovely and gracious (Phil 4:8). At the time of writing this letter life was tough and difficult for many of them including Paul. But he saw the importance of looking at the bigger picture and particularly the great beauty that lies within each person. There is much darkness, sadness and negativity in the world we live in but it should never cloud or block out all the good and positive within each person. Sometimes to appreciate this precious gift we need to concentrate on something that is life giving for us. Maybe it's a summer flower in your garden, maybe a painting, a poem, a pet, a piece of music or a favourite album. The poet Patrick Kavanagh said he encountered his beautiful God every time he went to the bog. It was a sacred place for him and it was life giving. What place for me is life giving? What do I like doing that is also life giving? What person energises and brings me life? God is at the heart of all that is life giving.
 
 
 
  Monday
Jul-16
A little story called 'The Crow And The Jug'

A crow half dead with thirst came upon a jug which had some water at the bottom. But it soon found out that it could not reach down far enough to get at it. He tried and tried but at last had to give up in despair. Then a thought came to him and he took a pebble and dropped it into the jug. Then he took another pebble and dropped it in as well. Then he took another one and kept at it. Slowly but surely as the pebbles were dropped in the water began to rise slowly. At last he saw the water come right up near him. After casting in a few more pebbles he was able to quench his thirst and save his life. The moral of the story.....little by little is the way to go!
 
 
 
  Sunday
Jul-15
The following reflection is by Jane Mellett called 'Be Church'

Jesus summoned the Twelve and began to send them out in pairs giving them authority over the unclean spirits. And he instructed them to take nothing for the journey except a staff - no bread, no haversack, no coppers for their purses. ~Mark 6:7

Jesus calls the disciples by name, recognising their individuality and their gifts. Yet he sends them out in twos so they must work together. Sometimes we may feel we can do his work alone or that we have all the right answers. We should celebrate our gifts but also recognise the things that perhaps we cannot do in the faith that others compliment our efforts. The disciples can only bring a staff, sandals and a single tunic, no baggage to be brought with them on their mission. Early Christians travelled light, relying on the generosity of others and this has a lot to say to us today.

It might seem harsh for Jesus to tell the disciples to shake the dust off their feet when they are rejected by people. We constantly fear rejection and when we experience it, it can leave us feeling exhausted and upset. Jesus' message here may be to free ourselves and move on. To not let that disappointment and upset control our lives because if we do, we lose our freedom, it holds us back and it starts to define us.

a quotation to finish...
'For the people of God who are sent to support us, for the people of God who are sent to disturb us, for the people of God who are sent to inspire us, for the people of God who are sent to trouble us, for the people of God who are sent to enthuse us, for the people of God who are sent to still us, thanks be to God.' ~Peter Privett
 
 
 
  Saturday
Jul-14
'Have you ever considered just being yourself? There is no need for you to be some kind of super being in order to measure up to everyone else. Who you are is really quite enough!' ~Iyanla Vanzant

What a different world we would have if everyone believed this. It really does make sense to just be ourselves, not to be measuring up to all those around us and to be happy with ourselves. The big problem of course is actually making it happen. We are almost programmed to not being happy with who we are and what we have. Hugely clever marketing strategies and advertising subtly create the need to have more. But the more always leads to yet more and it becomes a viscous circle.

The constant link or message throughout the Gospel stories; is the invitation to step out of whatever holds us back or prevents us from being who we are. In many of the stories Jesus allowed people to pull down the masks that disguised who they were. He unburdened them, energised them and encouraged them to live life as it happens. We pray for the confidence to be more comfortable with who we are. We acknowledge our limitations, our weaknesses and our faults. But we also recognise that there is a wealth of good things too and much of it waiting to be discovered. Let the discovery begin!
 
 
 
  Friday
Jul-13
"Let me just get the feel of it", my mother used to say when we cooked together; she would take the spoon and stir. She would know from the way the spoon felt in the mixture just how far we were from finished. Ten thousand spoons and ten thousand mixtures later, so do I! ~ Barbara Cawthorne Crafton

"Let me just get the feel of it", are lovely words. They suggest that every moment is to be savoured and nurtured. They suggest that nothing stays the same and how we need to be flexible with the beat of life. So often we rush, race and are flying in every direction. We have so much to get done in limited time. We are going so fast that we miss the beauty of the present moment. There isn't time to feel the moment and the loss is ours. It is also a sizeable loss. We miss out on so much simply because we're going too fast to notice.

It would be great to justify our speed and our endless lists of things to do, if we could say that it was worth it all. But why are so many people unhappy, unsettled, tired, stressed, lacking energy and wishing that there was time to slow down? To get the feel for something needs time and only we can give it the time. Where can I slow down this weekend to get the feel for the present moment?
 
 
 
  Thursday
Jul-12
'Do not look forward in fear to the changes of life, instead look to them with hope. Know that as they arise, God will lead you safely through all things. Do not fear what may happen tomorrow; the same everlasting God who cares for you today will take care of you today and every day. God will either shield you from suffering or will give you unfailing strength to bear it.' ~St. Francis de Sales

Some of the saints like Francis de Sales were rock solid in their belief and convictions. For him, belief in God was certain, important, life giving and a necessary part of life. In his writings he has tried to pass on some of his enthusiasm and to remind us that it's all within our reach. Thankfully his writings are honest. They are not all sweet talk and that everything will be cosy and happy if we turn to God. As a spiritual writer he acknowledges how difficult and fragile life can be. His simple message is that as we journey through life with all its twists and turns, we can count on God as a good and close friend who will not leave us down.
 
 
 
  Wednesday
Jul-11
'Listen and attend with the ear of your heart.' ~St.Benedict

Today we celebrate the feast of St.Benedict. He is often called the founder of western monasticism and is famous for 'the rule of Benedict'. This rule provided many guidelines for monks but as time went on his rule was adapted by millions of people all over the world. It has provided invaluable guidance for anyone who is searching for God in the world we live in today. At the very heart of his rule is the call for balance and moderation in all we do. This applies especially to our work, time given to rest and play and time given to our spiritual lives. We are all guilty of going to extremes with different things especially work and we simply forget all the other essential aspects of our lives. Benedict called on people to find the balance. In finding the balance we find ourselves closer to God and much more at ease and at peace with ourselves. He is also the patron Saint of Europe.
 
 
 
  Tuesday
Jul-10
'Life is like a box of chocolates. Each chocolate is like a portion of life. Some are crunchy, some are nutty, some are sweet, some are chewy but all are delicious in their own way. Without each one, life would not be complete.' ~Maria Fontaine

If everything was exactly the same, life would simply be dull and boring. There is such variety in every community. Like a box of chocolates we all have our own likes and dislikes. Even when there are only a few left to choose from, we are often tempted to lift the layer and take one from underneath! The same goes with people. We are all so different, so unique and because of this so special. Our Gospels encourage us to be the person we are. We don't have to try and match someone else. We don't have to be better than them. We don't have to waste energy trying to do what they are good at. We are encouraged to just be, to enjoy the things that work for us and to make the most of what's given to us. Like a box of chocolates, we are limited if we're just one on our own. But if that one becomes part of a bigger team, then there are endless possibilities.
 
 
 
  Monday
Jul-09
'I am quite confident with my weaknesses, with insults, hardships, persecutions, and the agonies I go through for Christ's sake. For it is when I am weak that I am strong.' ~2 Corinthians 12:10

We are uncomfortable with our weaknesses. To say we are weak suggests something negative, that we are way behind someone else and that it's not a good place to be. St Paul says to be weak is a strength or a blessing. What is he really saying here? He is certainly not saying that we should go around with our heads down, moaning about our weaknesses and throwing the towel in. What he is saying is that we all have weaknesses and limitations. This includes everyone. If the world's population is over 6 billion, then every single one, including you and me have weaknesses and limitations. It is part of our human condition. No one is perfect and trying to live perfectly will mean a very frustrating and unhappy life.

We need to accept and own our limits and our weak points. Instead of stumbling blocks they should become stepping stones. Using them as stepping stones allows us to concentrate more on our endless possibilities and good points. The stepping stones give us better views and we can see more of the good around us. Hugely important is to see the good within you. It bubbles up, energies and gives you the reason to keep going today. Whatever today holds for us, we ask God's blessings in our weaknesses and in our strengths.
 
 
 
  Sunday
Jul-08
The following reflection is by Jane Mellett called 'Small Towns and Big Ideas'

And Jesus said to them, 'A prophet is only despised in his own country, among his own relations and in his own house' and he could work no miracle there, though he cured a few sick people by laying his hands on them. He was amazed at their lack of faith. ~Mark 6:5-6

Today's story of Jesus visiting Nazareth is well known and probably well related to for many people. You can imagine the scene of a young man returning to his family, friends, those whom he grew up with, played with as a child and worked for. A young man arriving home to tell the people down the local about his travels, how well he is doing, how much he has changed and so on. And the response is still the same: 'Who does that fella think he is?' 'Oh so you are an idealist now?' Jesus is having such an experience in today's Gospel as the people of his hometown simply won't accept him.

He may have achieved wonderful things, only last week we heard of the miracles he worked. But the time has come to return to the home country and to teach there. People simply do not see him in the same way. We can sympathise with Jesus in this story, or perhaps recognise ourselves in those who refuse to accept that the local carpenter is now calling himself the Son of God. The people question him and his authority. The Nazarenes are unable to see God working through someone who they know well. He is unable to be a prophet in his own country. Jesus can't work miracles there because miracles require faith. How many times has Jesus come to us in the form of someone we knew well but we could not see him?
 
 
 
  Saturday
Jul-07
'Sometimes you have to let go to see if there was anything worth holding on to.' ~Author Unknown

To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I have reached my own limitations.
To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try to change or blame another, it is to allow healing to begin.
To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to be more responsible for things in their life.
To let go is not to be protective, it is to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny, but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold, or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.
To let go is not to criticize and regulate anybody, but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To let go is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.
To let go is to fear less and to allow more of God's love into my life.
 
 
 
  Friday
Jul-06
'There is no medicine like hope, no incentive so great and no tonic so powerful as expectation of something better tomorrow.' ~Orison Swett Marden

I had to smile during the week when reading a motoring column. A new car just out on the market was mentioned to be as reliable as the Angelus! There were also some tips on how to save costs with motoring. It gave some handy tips, especially in fuel consumption as it costs so much today. Tips like driving more smoothly could save you 10%. If you lower your cruising speed to 80km (50mph) you will also make big savings. Watching the use of heaters and air conditioning makes further saving on fuel but the biggest saving is surprisingly tyre pressure. So many run tyres on low pressure and this requires the vehicle to use much more fuel. If you are not convinced there is a simple test, cycle a bicycle for a short distance on low pressure, then repeat but pump the wheels up and it feels as if you are floating. The same goes with the tyres on a car, keep them at the right pressure and the savings are big.

There are also comparisons with our spiritual lives. So often we run on low pressure trying to cope with everything. But if we simply invite God into our lives, it's like a well working tyre with maximum pressure. It doesn't mean we will avoid the potholes of life but it does mean we are able to cope and deal with the challenges, difficulties and the surprises that life throws our way each day.
 
 
 
  Thursday
Jul-05
'May your roots go down deep into the soil of God's marvellous love. May you have the power to understand as all God's people should, how wide, how long, how high and how deep God's love really is.' Ephesians 3:17-18

How would you respond if someone asked are you in love? Would it throw you or would you find it easy to answer? Are we in love with someone, with life, with God? These are key questions but any honest answer can only come from within? Love is a word that is often thrown around wildly and carelessly. It is thrown around so much that we have cheapened its real meaning and value. We hunger for love and we yearn for it. It is the greatest energy in the world but often we search for it in the wrong place. Our prayer today is to acknowledge those whom we love and who are so vital and important in our lives. May our roots go down deep into their soil and also into the soil of God's marvellous love.
 
 
 
  Wednesday
Jul-04
A story called 'Never Give Up'

One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey. He invited all his neighbours to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement he quieted down.

A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up. As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up.Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!

Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a stepping stone. We can get out of the deepest wells by not stopping and never to give up! Shake it off and take a step up.
 
 
 
  Tuesday
Jul-03
'To be good instruments of God's love we must avoid being over tired, burnt out, stressed, aggressive, dispersed or closed up. We need to be rested, centred, peaceful and aware of the needs of our body, our heart and our spirit.' ~Jean Vanier

When we are tired and wearied it is hard to do anything. It is even more difficult on a spiritual level, to do anything proper. The invitation each day is to share God's love with other people but only if we ourselves are relaxed and rested. It is always a difficult challenge to find the balance between work, rest and play. But as we journey through these weeks of summer there is a better chance of finding that balance. As many enjoy a well earned holiday it is up to us to create time for rest and relaxation. No one else is going to do it for us and no one is going to thank us if we don't.
 
 
 
  Monday
Jul-02
'A handshake is a symbol of seeing you as a human being and acknowledging your humanity. For each to shake hands needs a generosity of spirit, a letting go of the hurt from the past and a sense of a brighter future where we can begin to live with our differences and knowing we both have valid stories.' ~Jo Berry

The photo of Queen Elizabeth and Martin McGuiness shaking hands last week was printed worldwide. Given his history as a former leader of the IRA, it was a defining moment on our progress along the peace process. There are many kinds of a handshake, one of welcome, one of sympathy, one of care and love, one of congratulations and affirmation. There are handshakes that are firm and strong, there is the weak and fish handshake, there is a handshake of hesitation and reluctance, and then there are times when there is a refusal of a handshake. In sport we remember earlier this year the controversy caused, when Liverpool player Luis Suárez refused to shake hands with the Manchester United captain Patrice Evra.

The handshake between the Queen and Martin McGuinness will certainly go down in history and a sign that peace is the only path forward. Jo Berry whose father was killed in the Brighton bombing reflected on the significance of the historic handshake by saying: "Peace happens when we treasure everyone, all creatures, our land, our planet, and work together to find solutions in which everyone wins."
 
 
 
  Sunday
Jul-01
The following reflection is by Jane Mellett called 'Talitha Cum!'

Mark sometimes likes to interrupt a story he is telling with another story - we call it a Markan sandwich. We hear an example of it today with the healing of Jairus' daughter and the woman with a haemorrhage. At first glance these stories might not seem to have a lot in common. The woman, a complete social outcast because of her condition, is called 'daughter' by Jesus. Her social status is completely reversed; she is a child of God, not some outcast that can be shunned by the community.

The synagogue official surprises us, pleasantly, with his faith in Jesus and his message, not something that those in religious leadership were credited for. What these two characters have in common is faith against all the odds. There are those in the story who laugh when Jesus says he can bring back Jairus' daughter. They are sent away. Jesus' healing breaks down all the barriers that isolate us from one another and from God. Not only that, faith in Jesus can even give us new life and help us to overcome things that keep us from being free: 'Do not fear; just keep on believing.' Mark leaves untranslated Jesus' own native language of Aramaic: 'Talitha cum' - a beautiful phrase meaning: 'Little girl, get up!' The girl has been given new life; the woman has been given new life also. Both have overcome those barriers that were keeping them from being free. We know what those barriers are for each of us as we reach out searching in faith and hope: 'Talitha cum.'
 
 

 

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